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He's Negotiated $1B+ in Comp.
Here's His Playbook.

Jacob Warwick
Professional Negotiator · $1B+ secured for clients
CAREER · NEGOTIATION
The Ask

The Simplest Line in Negotiation

"What's the chance there could be a little more?"

That one sentence, not aggressive, not confrontational, delivers a 20% improvement almost every time.

20%
simple pushback
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with pro help avg
The range Jacob seesJacob has seen 100%, 200%, even 400% increases from initial offers, especially when salary bands are challenged.
Framework

The Four Moves He Comes Back To

UNDERSTAND YOUR VALUE NAME THE PAIN YOU SOLVE CHALLENGE SALARY BANDS NEVER NEGOTIATEBY EMAIL
  • Companies know what everyone makes, you must know your value
  • Lead with the pain you eliminate, not the title you want
  • Salary bands are treated as gospel, they aren't
  • Never email your demands: you can't control tone
Why product people lose
Introverted, thoughtful types (PMs, engineers, designers) negotiate significantly worse than sales and marketing types. The same people who built the tech generation consistently leave the most money on the table.
The $1B+ lesson
Jacob has negotiated against several of Lenny's podcast guests, unbeknownst to them. The gap between what companies offer and what they'll pay is almost always wider than you think.
Playbook

Tactics That Actually Move Numbers

  • Never negotiate by email, you lose control of tone. A CEO reading your email demands at airport security will misread the room entirely
  • Let them speak first on comp, anchor information flows both ways
  • Be collaborative, not adversarial, frame it as "helping them understand the value" not "fighting for more"
  • Push back on bands, those who challenge authority in a meaningful, collaborative way win more than those who don't
  • Ask specifically, "what's the chance there could be a little more" beats any aggressive opener
The fear reframe
Most people think: "I'll seem greedy." The reality: when you look at what the company is making vs. what you're asking, you're not being greedy. It doesn't have to be confrontational.
Jacob's real principle
These companies have significant leverage over you, they know what others make, what they'll accept. Your only equalizer is deeply understanding the value you create.
Mindset

What Great Negotiators Know

  • Never be so sure of your worth that you wouldn't accept more (Jacob's favorite Chris Voss line)
  • Haste equals risk. Slow the process down so you can collect the information that builds your case
  • Negotiation comes down to information and timing, that's what creates power
  • Under promise, over deliver. Always
  • The first offer is rarely the real offer
"If you understand the value you can create, you can have that conversation with confidence."
Contrarian

Comp Negotiation Myths

Negotiating makes you look greedyINSTEAD →One simple question ("is there a little more?") delivers 20% in almost every case. Not greedy, expected.
Salary bands are fixed limitsINSTEAD →Bands are treated as gospel but they're not. Those who challenge them with value evidence consistently break through.
Email is fine for comp discussionsINSTEAD →Never negotiate by email. A CEO reading your demands while stressed misreads everything. Tone is everything, use your voice.
Smart people are good at negotiatingINSTEAD →PMs, engineers, and designers, who built the tech generation, are systematically the worst negotiators. Introversion costs money.
Based on Jacob Warwick's episode on Lenny's Podcast. All ideas on this page are from the episode.Watch on YouTube
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04:12 How much comp people leave on the table07:52 Why you shouldn’t feel greedy asking for more09:45 What founders should know about negotiation13:03 How Jacob works behind the scenes15:35 The biggest mistakes people make when negotiating19:30 Home-field advantage and controlling the conversation23:02 The step-by-step approach to negotiating an offer30:17 Jacob’s passion and why these tips don’t work on kids32:04 Who should speak first about compensation35:36 Understanding power39:52 Breaking out of salary bands by focusing on pain points45:45 Brief summary47:20 Selling the vacation: How to visualize success50:07 Controlling the narrative and planting seeds59:01 Jacob’s role as hype man01:01:05 Positioning yourself like a product01:02:49 Making the process frictionless for hiring managers01:06:20 Flipping the interview to extract information01:12:17 Five tactical tips for negotiating comp01:21:45 What to do when negotiations fall apart01:25:05 Why negotiation is different for every individual01:28:55 Why outcomes aren’t predetermined01:32:52 Wild Hollywood negotiation stories01:37:35 The first step you should take after getting an offer01:40:30 Jacob’s personal mission01:44:42 Lightning round and final thoughts
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